Assessment

1. If your friend picks a new board game that has a bunch of rules, what's your reaction?

I prefer a simpler game, but I’ll go along if it makes others happy.
Let’s start already—I’ll learn as I go.
I’m excited if everyone else is excited—it’s about having fun.
I’ll read through the instructions carefully before we begin.

2. What’s your reaction if someone in your circle plans a fun event without inviting you?

I’ll probably feel a bit hurt but won’t say anything.
I might confront them to find out why I was left out.
I’ll consider if there was a reason or if I should ask politely about it.
I’ll poke fun at the situation but try not to take it too seriously.

3. How do you handle a friend who is running late for your hangout?

I’ll use the time to chit-chat with others or browse social media.
I might send a direct “Where are you?” text to hurry them up.
I might check in politely and use the extra time to plan what we’ll do next.
I’ll wait patiently, no big deal.

4. What’s your attitude toward planning activities for a birthday celebration?

I’ll work behind the scenes to make sure everyone is comfortable.
I’m all about inviting a bunch of people and creating a lively atmosphere.
I’ll gather input from everyone and create a solid, well-thought-out plan.
I’ll take charge and plan something memorable for everyone.

5. When meeting new people, how do you typically act?

I observe and ask thoughtful questions before opening up.
I jump right into friendly chatter and jokes.
I stay warm and attentive, making sure nobody feels left out.
I like to take the lead in conversation and set the tone.

6. You’re invited to a casual event where you barely know anyone. What do you do?

I show up and introduce myself confidently to break the ice.
I hang back, look for a friendly face, and join a small conversation.
I observe the vibe and then join conversations that catch my interest.
I find someone to chat with, using humor to feel more comfortable.

7. When you’re the passenger on a road trip, how do you behave?

I might navigate or suggest the fastest route.
I go along with whatever the driver wants, just relaxing.
I’ll track our progress on the map and help plan stops.
I’ll keep spirits up by playing music or telling stories.

8. When it comes to house chores or errands, how do you prefer to get them done?

I create a schedule or checklist to stay organized.
I do them at my own pace, taking breaks when I need to.
I put on music or make it fun, maybe rope in friends if possible.
I knock them out quickly and decisively.

9. What do you do if a conversation starts turning into an argument between two people you know?

I step in and try to resolve it quickly.
I might use humor to defuse the tension.
I listen to both sides and then offer a fair, logical perspective.
I try to calm them down and keep the peace.

10. When you get a text from someone who needs help with a project, how do you usually respond?

I’ll jump in if it’s a quick fix and we can get it done fast.
I’ll ask for details first, then decide the best way to assist.
I’ll say yes and do what I can, happy to help a friend in need.
I’ll ask how I can help and try to make it enjoyable for both of us.

11. How do you handle a friend who’s always indecisive about where to eat?

I give them a fun selection to choose from, trying to keep it light.
I’ll ask what kind of food they like, then look up the best option.
I’ll just say, “I’m okay with anything—whatever you feel like.”
I pick a spot for them and say, “Let’s go!”

12. If a friend challenges you to do something a bit out of your comfort zone, what’s your first instinct?

I want to understand the full details before deciding.
I’m game if it promises a fun time.
I’ll do it if it seems like a bold, worthwhile risk.
I’m hesitant, but I’ll go along if I trust the friend.

13. If you have to give a toast at a casual party, how do you approach it?

Keep it short and powerful, then move on.
Make it lighthearted, crack jokes, and uplift everyone.
Express sincere feelings and appreciation for everyone there.
Plan your words carefully, making sure your message is clear.

14. If you're in a group chat that’s deciding on a restaurant, what's your style?

I look up reviews and compare menus before making a recommendation.
I suggest a place I like and encourage everyone to agree quickly.
I throw in some fun restaurant ideas that offer a good vibe.
I wait to see what everyone else wants and go along with the group.

15. How do you usually act in a group chat with friends?

I read everything, then jump in with a relevant point.
I sprinkle in funny memes and keep the conversation lively.
I mostly react with supportive comments or emojis.
I keep everyone on task: “What’s the plan?”

16. When you see a messy room or situation, how do you feel?

I see it as a problem to systematically organize and fix.
I don’t mind the mess if I’m having a good time.
I want it cleaned up ASAP, and I’ll make it happen.
It bothers me a little, but I might not say anything unless asked.

17. When you get invited to two events at the same time, what’s your strategy?

I pick the one I’m most excited about, without much second-guessing.
I see which one has the most friends going and go there.
I might try to split my time or see if I can make both work somehow.
I compare both events’ pros and cons, then decide logically.

18. If a friend suggests canceling plans last-minute, what's your reaction?

I might feel annoyed but quickly decide on a new plan for myself.
I shrug it off—maybe I’ll find someone else to hang with.
I understand and try not to make them feel guilty.
I ask them if everything is okay and see if we can reschedule logically.

19. If someone you just met invites you to a casual event next week, how do you decide?

I’m happy to go, especially if it’s social and lively.
I’ll consider the details first—where, when, who’s going, etc.
I might say yes if I feel comfortable with them.
If it sounds fun, I’m in, no hesitation.

20. When it comes to making weekend plans with friends, how do you typically contribute?

I see what others want to do and try to accommodate them.
I throw out a bold idea and encourage everyone to go for it.
I talk it up, get people excited, and keep the group energized.
I compare all the options before suggesting the most sensible plan.

21. What’s your style when you notice someone in a group is really quiet?

I gently check on them later to see if they’re okay.
I might directly ask them a question to bring them into the conversation.
I try to crack a joke or lighten the mood so they feel comfortable.
I let them be, assuming they’ll speak up if they want.

22. If you're watching a movie with friends and someone starts discussing spoilers, what do you do?

I firmly tell them to stop and change the subject.
I might tease them a little and then suggest talking about something else.
I explain why spoilers ruin the experience and ask them to hold off.
I gently remind them that some of us still want to be surprised.

23. Imagine you have a day off with nothing planned. How do you decide what to do?

I pick something exciting or challenging to keep me active.
I might spontaneously call up friends for something fun.
I’ll make a list of possibilities and choose the most interesting or productive one.
I’ll probably spend quality time with a close friend or just relax peacefully.

24. How do you usually react when someone gives you advice you didn't ask for?

I’ll likely joke about it and change the subject.
I’ll politely nod and appreciate the concern, even if I don’t use it.
I might push back or say, “I’ve got this, thanks.”
I consider the advice to see if it’s helpful before deciding what to do.

25. If you suddenly have a free weekend, how do you feel about spontaneously traveling somewhere?

Sounds great, as long as I can bring friends along for fun.
I’d rather plan it out with friends beforehand and make sure it’s all good.
Totally up for a quick road trip or adventure.
I might do a little research first to see if it’s worth the trip.

26. When you notice a problem with a service you’re using (like your phone plan), how do you handle it?

I try to see if I can fix it myself or wait it out.
I might chat online with a rep and keep things friendly.
I search online for solutions or compare other providers first.
I call the provider and expect them to fix it quickly.

27. When you realize a friend is upset but not saying why, how do you respond?

I try to lighten the mood or distract them with something fun.
I straight-up ask them what’s wrong.
I carefully ask questions to understand the situation before giving advice.
I offer a listening ear and let them open up when they’re ready.

28. When someone criticizes you, how do you usually respond?

I might laugh it off or make light of it.
I stand up for myself quickly and defend my position.
I reflect on the criticism and figure out if there’s something to learn.
I take it to heart and try to smooth things over.

29. Your favorite band is coming to town, but you already have plans. How do you react?

If it clashes with someone else’s plans, I might skip it to keep the peace.
I’ll weigh if I really want to go or if the timing/cost isn’t worth the hassle.
I’ll see if I can rearrange my schedule; no way I’m missing out.
I might gather a big group of friends to go and make it a party.

30. How do you usually respond when someone disagrees with you?

I stand my ground and present my point clearly.
I look for common ground to keep everyone happy.
I might laugh it off or try to change the subject to something lighter.
I ask follow-up questions and try to see where they're coming from.

31. If your friend group is stuck making a decision, what's your natural role?

I’ll analyze possible outcomes and recommend the best option.
I’ll step up and pick a direction.
I try to see what everyone wants and help find a middle ground.
I’ll crack jokes and keep the mood light while we decide.

32. How do you act when meeting a friend’s family for the first time?

I observe their dynamics and respectfully chime in when it feels right.
I introduce myself confidently and hold a solid conversation.
I’m polite, calm, and friendly but let them lead the conversation.
I’m talkative, warm, and might even crack jokes to break the ice.

33. How do you typically react if a friend shows up with a brand-new idea for a group activity?

I check if it’s feasible and push it forward if it seems cool.
I might look at pros/cons to be sure it’s worth doing.
I see if everyone else is on board before I commit.
I get excited easily and hype everyone up to join.

34. When a friend invites you to an unfamiliar social event, how do you feel?

I do a little research or ask questions before deciding.
I’m cautious but will go if it makes my friend happy.
I’m excited to meet new people and see what happens.
I’m open to it—I’ll figure out how to make the most of it.

35. How do you act when someone tells a story in a group setting?

I might interject to keep them on track if they ramble.
I pay close attention to details and might ask a clarifying question.
I add fun comments or reactions to keep the energy high.
I quietly listen and nod supportively.

36. How do you usually handle someone who’s talking a lot and not letting you speak?

I interrupt politely but firmly to share my input.
I patiently wait for a natural pause to gently add my thoughts.
I take mental notes and then carefully present my ideas when they finish.
I let them talk, occasionally chiming in with a fun remark or two.

37. How do you usually greet an old friend you haven’t seen in a while?

With excitement, big smiles, and maybe a playful tease.
With a smile, asking them about what’s new in their life in a measured way.
With a warm, friendly greeting and genuine questions about how they’ve been.
With a confident hug or handshake, letting them know I’m glad to see them.

38. What do you usually do if you’re running late to meet someone?

I let them know exactly when to expect me and why I’m behind.
I apologize in a friendly way and add a silly excuse to keep it light.
I send a quick text stating I’m on my way, no big apologies.
I feel bad and apologize sincerely, hoping they’re not too upset.

39. How do you respond if someone cuts you off while you’re talking?

I let them talk and wait until they’re done.
I wait for a pause, then calmly re-enter the conversation with my thoughts.
I speak louder or interrupt back to finish my point.
I laugh it off, maybe make a joke, and keep going.

40. How do you act when someone shares exciting news with you?

I share in their joy quietly and offer supportive words.
I get super enthusiastic and celebrate with them.
I ask them questions about how it all happened.
I congratulate them and encourage them to capitalize on their success.

41. When choosing a new place to live, what's your main priority?

A place that fits my needs right now—quick decision.
I check location, price, reviews, and plan out all the details.
A location where I can easily hang out with friends or host gatherings.
A cozy spot that feels safe and comfortable.

42. When you're learning a new skill (like cooking or playing guitar), what's your style?

I jump straight into practice and see results quickly.
I prefer to go slowly with lots of patience and encouragement.
I watch tutorials, read how-tos, and learn step by step.
I might join a group class or do it with friends to make it more social.

43. If a friend accidentally offends you, how do you respond?

I let them know right away that it bothered me.
I ask for clarification to see if they really meant it that way.
I might feel hurt but avoid conflict and hope it passes.
I shrug it off or make a light joke to smooth things over.

44. If you have to make a major purchase (like a new phone), how do you approach it?

I do thorough research on features, prices, and reviews before buying.
I pick a reputable brand quickly and don’t overthink it.
I might ask friends for their opinions and experiences.
I tend to stick with what I know and trust.

45. What’s your general approach to trying new hobbies or activities?

I usually research the hobby first, read reviews, or watch tutorials.
I often invite friends to join so we can all have a good time.
I jump right in and learn by doing.
I prefer familiar activities but will try something new if friends are doing it.

46. If a friend shares a personal problem with you, how do you approach it?

I offer emotional support and understanding.
I suggest a direct solution they can act on.
I ask more about the details to find a logical way to help.
I try to cheer them up and keep things optimistic.

47. If you're running errands and the line is taking forever, what's your reaction?

I patiently wait and keep calm—no point making a fuss.
I chat with the people around me or check social media to pass the time.
I look for a way to speed things up or move to a faster line.
I calculate how long it might take and weigh whether it's worth sticking around.

48. How do you handle it if you lose at a friendly game night?

I’d joke around about my terrible luck.
I’m just glad we had a good time together.
I might be a bit annoyed but move on quickly.
I might reflect on the strategy or rules to see where I went wrong.

49. If you're in charge of planning a casual get-together, what's your approach?

I make a quick plan and tell everyone how it’ll go.
I research the best spots, compare options, and pick the most efficient choice.
I invite as many friends as possible and focus on fun activities.
I check in with a few close friends to make sure everyone is comfortable.

50. How do you typically deal with conflict?

I tend to keep the peace and avoid confrontation if possible.
I prefer to tackle it right away and get it sorted fast.
I try to keep things upbeat or crack a joke to ease tension.
I like to step back, analyze the facts, and address it carefully.

Remember...

Resist the urge to answer as your superhero alter-ego.

Go with your gut.